Derick Kelly
There are many challenges to raising young people. Not the least of these challenges is that kids and teenagers are changing so quickly before our eyes. Sometimes these changes can seem to be happening overnight. It can be scary, frustrating, and you may often feel like you are not a good parent. I want to assure you if you are feeling that way you are not alone and likely doing the best you can to love your kids. Keep it up! But for those moments when there seem to be no answers, I want to make you aware of some resources that might be helpful.
Down in the youth rooms I am beginning to compile books for a library specifically geared to parents who are trying to raise their kids in the faith. As of now it is only a few books on a shelf, but you are welcome to take any of them home to read. Some are simply reference books while others aim to be general guides in how to approach parenting. Feel free to browse through the books if you happen to be around the youth rooms. If you are interested in getting your hands on some resources as a parent or maybe just an adult who cares, I would be more than happy to help you find one that may be helpful!
As of right now, the book I will highlight and recommend is called The Space Between by Dr. Walt Mueller. It is a short read, just over one hundred pages, and covers developmental stages of adolescents in a readable way. Mueller also writes from a distinctly Christian perspective, often adding reflections from Scripture on how to lead our children in a meaningful faith. If a parent wants just one book on Christian parenting of teenagers, this would be my first recommendation. The book concludes with this passage, “May the God who is parenting you bless you as you parent your teenager. And may God make you a blessing to your kids.” (p. 120). It is a book written with grace that is well researched and well worth the time.
I will keep my eyes out for other resources to add in the future, including video series or audiobooks for those who are less interested in books. It is no easy thing raising teenagers. They are always changing and it is hard to keep up. That is what this library is about. It is about helping us understand our teenagers and express our love to them as we guide them into a meaningful life of faith and service to God. If you want to know more feel free to email me at derickk@hebrononline.org or text me at 814-661-5149.
